Let It Go

Yes you are an individual and you like things a certain way, but in a marriage you just have to let some things go. If you are in love with your spouse, your desire should not be to change everything about them! Most men don't care about how the toothpaste looks, or if hair is on the sink, and definitely not if the toilet seat is up. Ladies, we have to understand that's their nature and just let it go. Once we start to nitpick about every little thing it starts to feel like a parental relationship instead of a marriage. That same feeling that you have as a teenager when your parent is always breathing down your neck about something comes into your marriage. It is the beginning of longing to get away and out of the house. Then the real problems start! Just love one another and let simple things go. There will be more challenging things ahead!