Communication

Its been said over and over that communication is key in a marriage. That statement is very true. It does not always mean expressing your feelings all the time because that can become known as "nagging" and becomes lethal in a marriage. We think its important to talk about everything! Talk about your day, your plans, something funny you saw, funny expressions or habits your spouse unawaringly has. The worst thing is to be stuck in, maybe due to weather, with the power out and you realize you and your spouse are BORING! So it is key to communicate and continue learning one another. You should know secret places your spouse is sensitive to, topics that he/she will talk all day about, what makes your spouse upset,favorite foods or drinks,foods he/she hates. They may not admit it right away but the small things matter and the small things are learned through communication!