Monday, May 11, 2009

Compliment

Everyone likes to hear good things about themselves. When you are not receiving compliments about yourself at home it becomes a strain on the marriage outside the home! If your spouse looks particularly nice in a certain outfit, tell them. Be sure to compliment their hair, their smile. Let them know the things you love about their features. You don't want to just think it, its important to say it. The truth is that when your partner lacks the ability to make you feel good about yourself, you will start to desire it else where. So if someone outside the relationship starts to consistently fill in where you fall short, be careful, they may just take your spot! So you guys catch our drift, compliment your spouse today!

6 comments:

  1. hello, this is ya nephew tony well everything is true that you said because even tho im not married but compliments take a big part in my relationship. I encourage people/ everybody to get on here and participate because this is some good stuff.

    ReplyDelete
  2. I agree with you Tony! One compliment goes a long way. In marriages/relationships compliments should be second nature.

    ReplyDelete
  3. So true. I think both the husband and wife want and desire to hear compliments from one another! What if your mate will not receive the compliment?

    ReplyDelete
  4. I agree! I think compliments should come second nature in a marriage. This help with communication skills too.

    ReplyDelete
  5. Jemeka your question was " What if your mate will not receive the compliments?" Words can travel deeper than the eyes can see. Even though it appears to have no effect little by little they can soften or harden ones heart towards you. So continue to compliment knowing that eventually a change will come.

    ReplyDelete
  6. Thanks Tim. I will take that advice!

    ReplyDelete